I left this old place when I was 18, only to return to it a tidy bit more mature. Although this old place provided me with a blueprint of development, it was really "abroad" that was truly formative for me. Sometimes I wonder if I ever came back?
I know this old place not as much from within; I had the benefit of transposing my mind while it was still young. Much like my mind, this old place is of two equal parts; that which i knew from within and the one i wish to build anew. Beside being enveloped by the "foreign", my liberal education also proved critical in developing how I position my reason in relation to this old place. I learned much from all my travels, my school and my old self.
When I was 18, I went to Alaska. Got a visa because I was a student of the American University situated in Europe (oh the sweet privilege being less administrative worry), booked an airplane ticket, made the online reservation at a hostel in Anchorage and scheduled a shuttle to take me from Anchorage to Denali. Mind you, at that time, resident of the old place did not have Master cards, ergo I was unable to make any payments. I basically relied on the goodwill of strangers to believe some person from a place they don't even know exists (yes, Americans suck at geography), really made the reservation and will act upon it.
My decision to go to Alaska must have been my destiny. I never thought of going there. When I decided to go to that specific place of all the places I could've went that summer, it was without reason. Although I was quick on the trigger to confirm to people that it was because my life would otherwise never take me there. And why not? I am 18, about to work for the first time in my life, why not go to the end of the world? I should be able to learn something along the way, too. Its a gut feeling and I followed it.
Immediately upon arriving at my motel in Anchorage, I guess I learned something about my old place. I unpacked and went to sip that American air in the nice garden motel had. Not surprising, as I am an extrovert and a slave to my own curiosity, I had a nice chat with a construction worker. I can't remember what we talked about, as it was one of those talks that are heartfelt and honest. If i have to look back at it now, all i know is that I talked to that person as a living and breathing being can, using the fact that we breathe the same air in a same way to be the common denominator, a fundamental link to our communication. To my surprise, he called me a wise person, estranging me from the American kids. I thought then, maybe their kids rush too much and really don't have the time to breathe it all in. Maybe that is the cost of being a child of a society that has pioneered development.
Or maybe I was just spoiled and lazy. A predominant majority of kids from my old place have one obligation and one obligation only: to study. Whether we are from rich families, or poorer, we all don't work, but have to study. Whether this is a consequence of a well-established system where education pays off, or an insistence of a communist regime that collapsed while we were begging school, does not really matter. What I did learn is that, unlike American children, we have more time to ourselves - which probably means less opportunities. But more wisdom, apparently.
Meh, society trumps circumstance. This apparent freedom children from my old place enjoy does not bare much benefit. It is a remnant gift of an era that is devoid of a consistent set of values that are placed upon individuals. In academic literature, this is called transition. And although we were free, we were also devoid of a set of values we would carry through this transition. Freedom is always good, but not without a compass. The transition is now over and we are much less wise. Far beyond being grappled by a busy-bee socio-political machinima and the dangers it poses to all the good values we used to cherish, we also carry that void in our character. We don't just consume. We don't just loose ourselves and our families to markets and TV shows. We also lie and steal. And that is a sin worthy of cutting down the angel wings.